first things first
read this,
then we talk.
four documents. they are short, they are in plain english, and they open in a new tab so you can actually read them before agreeing instead of after.
the agreement
the short version
this is not a dating app. it is for making friends and it is built to be bad at anything else. you pick who you want to be put in a room with, an age band applies in both directions, and neither of those is adjustable by anyone at any price.
18+
everybody here is an adult. agreeing below is you saying you are one. the age check itself happens later and it is a selfie, not a passport.
VERSION 1.3
change one word in any of the 5 and this page comes back for everybody, automatically. we cannot quietly edit what you agreed to.